DAY 3: Do You Want to Stop the Insanity?

Welcome to Day 3 of 30 Days to Freedom from Negative Thought Habits. This is the prerequisite course for the Dreams to Reality training curriculum. To order the complete 30-day mini-course (free) click on the button.

This 30-day thought-step program is designed to change your habits about how you think about your life. Do you often feel that your efforts go unrewarded? Do you ever feel that people take advantage of your kindness? That no one appreciates you? Do you ever wonder if you are sabotaging your best life?

Albert Einstein said the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results! With that definition, most of us have been insane, including myself! This is one of my favorite quotes because it is so true!

So what we are going to do with this thought-step is identify those things we are doing over and over again that aren’t working! This is such a simple brilliant concept, but for some reason we are so distracted with chasing the results that we don’t see that we are like rats on a treadmill! Ha! I’ve done it, so many times, so I do not exclude myself.

This thought-step will help us to become aware of those things we are repeating and just notice them. Hmmmm. I keep dating the same type, and I am not finding a serious relationship. (Maybe its because that type of men is an unavailable type.”) Or hmmmm…I can never seem to please my boss, no matter what I do, the harder I work, the less I am appreciated. (Maybe I’m too available and he does not completely realize how much I really do).

These are just some examples of repeating patterns hinder our ability to bring our dreams to reality. Let’s just take one minute and find one repeating situation that isn’t bringing results we really want or deserve. This is a mini-series and we only ask that you do one thought-step, so just pick one thing that feels like insanity, and notice it. Just notice it.

[To truly master the life skill of attracting your dreams to reality, you may invest in any of the Dreams to Reality self-help curriculum through our bookstore. Or  take the Dreams to Reality Independent Study; or schedule a private course with the author, Deborah S. Nelson. If money is short, get the [5]Free Digital Version of the Dreams to Reality textbook to get started right now!]

Now that you’ve noticed the one thing in your life that fits Einstein’s definition of insanity, make a promise to yourself to notice it each time it repeats itself. Notice that it seems to have a life of its own.

This is a very easy mini-series and we are only teach thought-steps, and we do not ask you to change the situation, we only ask that you notice it with your thoughts. If you try to change the situation that sometimes also can become a  part of the repeating insanity, so we just ask that you notice it happening! These 30 thought-steps prepares you to be very successful in the Dreams to Reality Curriculum and Training.

To Your New Reality,

Deborah S. Nelson, Author,
Dreams To Reality Series

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WHAT IS A VISION BOARD BOOK?

Based on the dream board concept, The Dreams to Reality Series guides you step by step, to use the Power of the Pen to write and manifest your goals. You publish a 20-40 page Dream Plan Book. Imagine yourself, a published author of your personal goals, career goals, business goals, and spiritual goals. Realize a quantum step in self improvement through the power of your pen with self publishing! The process of becoming a published author will drive you to identify and achieve your most important personal goals and to finally live your dreams. No longer is the ability to become a published author reserved for the elite few. Publish that book you’ve always dreamed of writing. You can do it too!

Day 2: “What are Your Pet Obstacles”?

Welcome to Day 2 of 30 Days to Freedom from Negative Thought Habits. This is the prerequisite course for the Dreams to Reality Complete Curriculum. You’ll be surprised how just taking these easy thought-steps will start brining your dreams towards you. Doing this everyday for a month will create a great habit and great habit will create great results.

With Day 2 we are going to have you go a little further with your anxieties and fears. First of all, we all have them. Let me tell you, I have taught many people and guided many people through bringing their dreams to reality! We all have fears that keep us from just getting started. By the fact that you have already done Step 1, and are now on step 2, you are way ahead of the game! Congratulations for taking this Step 2! Yes, congratulate yourself!

For this step we want you to remember the first little anxiety that comes to mind, possible your first thought this morning when you woke up. Is it a personal insecurity? A bill you need to pay? A favor that you promised someone? Simply identify one small anxiety and allow it to have voice before you squash it down. We do this because the fears, insecurities and anxieties that become our “pet obstacles” keep us from seeing our real dreams come true. Yes, we know that you may have been taught or exhorted, “no negative thinking1” But there’s a difference between negative thinking, fearful thinking, positive thinking and truthful thinking. Right now we want to shine one truth on one negative thought, to dismiss it.

So simply take one minute to identify one fear, anxiety, or insecurity, and speak to it. Tell it, “Thank you very much, I know that you are trying to protect me from harm, but I am dismissing you to go into the light of truth.”

Then imagine the light of truth shining on that one little anxiety or fear.

[To truly master the life skill of attracting your dreams to reality, you may invest in any of the Dreams to Reality self-help curriculum through our bookstore. Or take the Dreams to Reality Independent Study; or schedule a private course with the author, Deborah S. Nelson. If money is short, get the Free Digital Version of the Dreams to Reality textbook to get started right now!]e light of truth shining on that one little anxiety or fear.

By shining the truth on just one little tiny fear or negative thought, it will dissipate. We do this step-by-step, day by day, until we have gained the freedom and the confidence to move past our fears and begin to launch our courage. Once you’ve disintegrated one little tiny negative fear, you are ready for step 3. Remember to spend just a minute a day upon waking to dissipate any fears, anxieties, or insecurities that may crop up.

Now you are ready for Day 3. To get the rest of this series sent to you daily in your mailbox, just click below.WHAT IS A VISION BOARD BOOK?

Based on the dream board concept, The Dreams to Reality Series guides you step by step, to use the Power of the Pen to write and manifest your goals. You publish a 20-40 page Dream Plan Book. Imagine yourself, a published author of your personal goals, career goals, business goals, and spiritual goals. Realize a quantum step in self improvement through the power of your pen with self publishing! The process of becoming a published author will drive you to identify and achieve your most important personal goals and to finally live your dreams. No longer is the ability to become a published author reserved for the elite few. Publish that book you’ve always dreamed of writing. You can do it too!

Day 1: How Spacious is Your Comfort Zone?

Welcome to Day 1 of 30 Days to Freedom from Negative Thought Habits. This is the prerequisite course for the Dreams to Reality Complete Curriculum.This is going to be SO FUN! Baby Steps are so incredible because they and they really work! In the Dreams to Reality Workbook, we teach 10 Big Action Steps we teach to achieve your dreams on purpose, and that first action step is “Launch Your Courage.”

But this series is really simple. We teach mini thought-steps, so we are just going to talk a little about courage in this first thought-step. Courage is not the lack of fear but it is pushing through fear. Some of you will be so ready to feel the fear and do it anyway! Others will want to go more slowly. Just know it is normal to have fear when stepping out of your comfort zone. But we aren’t going to step out of our comfort zone; we’re going to do something else. Read on and you’ll see.

For this first step we want you to meditate, concentrate, or just simply take one minute out to feel the fear of leaving of your present comfort zone. Close your eyes. Feel your comfort zone. Feel how warm and fuzzy and cozy you feel in that comfort zone space. Now feel your comfort zone being stretched. Now feel the fear of loss of your comfort zone. Feel your bigger, more spacious comfort zone. And now feel the feeling of your dreams came to true.

Then think about trading expanding your cozy comfort zone for and expanded one that will fit that dream. Think about that dream come true being one and fitting inside your newer bigger comfort zone. So feel that fear of letting go of the old comfort zone…and let is pass through you like a cloud passing overhead. Now feel and enjoy your new expanded comfort zone! By allowing yourself to feel this fear, without resisting it, hiding or stuffing it…you’ll already have taken the first action step of How to Attract your Dreams to Reality in 30 Daily Thought-Steps and to change your life for the better.

[To go deeper into learning the life skill of attracting your dreams to reality, you may buy and work through any of the Author Your Dreams self-help workbooks in the Dreams to Reality bookstore. Or you may sign up for the Dreams to Reality Independent Study; or schedule a private course from the author Deborah S. Nelson. If money is short right now, sign up for the Free Digital Version of the Dreams to Reality textbook to get started anyway. You can buy the workbook later on.]

Now before you get distracted or get back into your normal daily activities, just take one minute out, to sit with the feelings of anxiety, and fears when you think of moving out of your comfort zone into the zone. Just sit with it for about 1 minute. Now you are ready for Day 2. To get the rest of this series sent to you daily in your mailbox, or just click below.WHAT IS A VISION BOARD BOOK?

Based on the dream board concept, The Dreams to Reality Series guides you step by step, to use the Power of the Pen to write and manifest your goals. You publish a 20-40 page Dream Plan Book. Imagine yourself, a published author of your personal goals, career goals, business goals, and spiritual goals. Realize a quantum step in self improvement through the power of your pen with self publishing! The process of becoming a published author will drive you to identify and achieve your most important personal goals and to finally live your dreams. No longer is the ability to become a published author reserved for the elite few. Publish that book you’ve always dreamed of writing. You can do it too!

Let’s Get Real.

How many motivational programs have dropped their followers back into “real life” on Monday morning feeling a bit more motivated, but in reality…LOST?

Have you ever purchased motivational products that are mostly hype and pretty worthless? Yet you still feel that hidden treasure can be found in self-development concepts, and you are right.

Now there’s a uniquely powerful new program; and it’s no secret! Author of 10 self-help books, Deborah S. Nelson introduces a transformational curriculum in the spring of 2012, that will take anyone from ‘lost” to getting real, to creating their own reality.

It is a well-known fact that the 3% most successful people in the world have previously written down their dreams and goals. The Dreams to Reality Series wields the power of the pen (as a self-customized nuerolinguistic process), in combination with the law of attraction, in a step-by-step journey to create a self-published vision board book.

Using the power of the pen to publish their action plan, readers, clients, and students experience astonishing life changes and results. With the Dreams to Reality 10-step process, clients and students enjoy a real boost in credibility and confidence, as well as a (self-published) plan that maps out well-defined goals and lifelong dreams. Using the self-publishing process, and self-modeling approach to authentic growth taught, the Author Your Reality Series has raised the bar for the venue of self-development!

Here’s what some students/readers of this self-improvement curriculum are saying:

“Great tool for establishing dreams suitable for junior high students through college and adult seekers. Positive affirmations and simple step by step activities make this a must have tool for those ready to plan for future, write a practical life plan, or even write a book!”

                                            Dr. Deborah De Vries, School Trustee and College Instructor

 ”This is a serious “self-help” formula that I believe could actually make a reader’s dreams come true, IF they seriously followed the instructions of the author. In my opinion, this book often reads like “The Power of Now” or “A Course in Miracles” — which one should consider as a “good thing.” After all, “The Power of Now” and “A Course in Miracles” did positively transform thousands of lives!

                                                                      Amelia A. Painter, Author (Fostoria, IA USA)

“Dreams to Reality, when used with the Workbook, truly help the reader determine their dreams (goals), and list them–which is very important. Then you pick one and ride it to fruition in a wonderful manner. I was pleasantly surprised, since I don’t think of myself as dreamer.”

Larry Melby (Left Bank, California)

 ”My dream was to be an author. I have 5 books in the making that I’ve never completed. Through this course I finally finished and published my very first book! What a dream come true. I now have many of the skills, the courage and the inspiration to continue onward and upward!”

                                                                                   Cindy M. White (Santa Barbara, CA)

“For a lot of us, it’s not that we don’t have dreams. Life gets busy and all we get to do is what needs to be done. This book is a call to action to get started with bringing your dreams to reality. Dreams to Reality helps you define your dream and get you started with actually making the steps to fulfill that dream. Want to get started working on your dream? Get this book!”

                                                                                                     Peter Kahuria (OK, USA)

 “The author distills and simplifies centuries of wisdom in this little easy to read guidebook for setting & accomplishing life goals. Well worth owning a copy. You’ll likely keep it as a long-term guidebook to your universe.”

                                                                                                        Carol Stall (Austin, TX)

 “Deborah Nelson, author of Dreams to Reality – Author Your Dreams ACTION PLAN, is passionate about allowing you to follow your own dreams – not hers. You are NOT told what to dream, or what to expect, but to live your own dream, whatever it may be. But, be ready to conquer the fear of failure, as that word is not in Ms. Nelson’s vocabulary. She will help you to look at all facets of your life, find your dream, separate the truth from fantasy and inspire you to take action to make your own dream come true. Don’t buy the book – invest in yourself by investing in this book that will turn your Dreams to Reality. I did!”

                                                                              Bill Hood Books, Bill Hood (Austin, TX)

How often have you wished for a real result leading to real happiness? The Dreams to Reality Action Plan is a three-part curriculum teaching how to become author of your dreams in six weeks!

PART ONE: Introduction to Dream Planning

PART TWO: Dream Planning Workbook leads the reader 10 Dreams to Reality Steps.

PART THREE: Dream Plan Book: Your PUBLISHED vision board book or dream book!

Author Your Reality introduces 4 tested workbooks in March of 2012. Those workbooks are Author Your Dreams Action Plan Workbook, Author Your Career Action Plan Workbook; Author your Book Action Plan Workbook, and Author Your Relationship Action Plan Workbooks. The workbooks address specific areas of focus and are geared to introduce specific goals and dreams into reality.

Experience self-inspiration and self-transformation with through self-publishing! Dreams to Reality is an investment in building inner authentic credibility and confidence. For your business and personal life, there’s no sales, success, or life training more fun and powerful in the genre of self-development right now!

How much is a “dream come true” worth? It’s PRICELESS! Buy the Books Now

Those of us who study self-improvement have undoubtedly heard of the Law of Attraction. Recently made popular by “The Secret,” a well-branded independent documentary, it hit local movie theatres in 2006.

Is the Law of Attraction real, or just one more sound-good-feel-look-good piece of motivational fluff? I’ll answer that shortly, but before I do, I will share a key that will help you “make hay” in bringing your dreams to reality. Ever thought negatively about positive thinking? It’s embarrassing. If you say something negative about positive thinking, then you certainly aren’t very positive…are you? (No wonder your life’s not so hot, right?)

Positive thinking is more productive than negative thinking, but TRUTHFUL thinking is trumps both. I was listening to a tape by Tony Robbins’ when he humorously explained that so-called positive thinking isn’t enough to change your life or your reality. Someone was speaking to the weeds in a garden while proclaiming, “There are no weeds, there are no weeds, there are no weeds…” with an expectation for the weeds to magically disappear. It was funny! But what is the real truth of that garden?

1. The weeds exist, as the object of denial.

2. The weeds are not wanted.

3. Perhaps it’s best to just pull up the weeds. 

Truthful Thinking

Truthful thinking might ask, what are these weeds anyway? Could they be cultivated and harvested?  Dandelions, treated as weeds in lawns, can be harvested and sold as herbs. Truthful thinking would likely say… “Accept the weeds. Love the weeds; they are here for a purpose. Thank the weeds! Truly be thankful for the garden that grows the weeds.” Allow your mind to discover the truth and the message of the weeds in your life.

The Real Secret

Here are my conclusions about The Law of Attraction. Yes it is real! But there’s a more powerful way to manifest your dreams to reality. Like the difference between positive thinking, negative thinking, and the truth, The Law of Attraction is only the beginning.

Two More LOA’s

There are two more LOA’s! The second LOA is the Law of Action! You begin by visualizing and feeling what you want to manifest. That is the first Law, The Law of Attraction. But it doesn’t just end there. There are two more LOA’s. The Second is the Law of Action states that you must take action, any action, based on faith to become the author of your dreams. The First Law of Attraction sounds great and feels magical, and yes…there’s a positive thread of truth to it! But it’s time to move from the initial excitement of the Law of Attraction to discover the power of the second LOA- The Law of Action and followed by the third law–the Law of Activation! (written by Deborah S. Nelson, Dreams to Reality Series)

The Law of Activation

The Law of Activation kicks in once you take action. Your dream starts entering the universe in bits and pieces is born into physical reality. The Law of Activation receives your dream into reality. To activate the dream, we open our arms with thankfulness. The Law of Activation brings about the living reality of what was begun with The Law of Attraction. This is the “end that we had in mind,” where you now live your dreams! Yes, The Law Attraction is very real, but don’t forget the next two Laws, They are The Law of Action and The Law of Activation! These are crucial if you want to be the author of your dreams.

LIVE YOUR DREAMS IN 2012!

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How Can I Become a Published Author?
Based on the dream board concept, The Dreams to Reality Series guides you step by step, to use the Power of the Pen to write your goals. You publish a 20-40 page Vision book or published book proposal. Imagine how empowering it is to publish your personal goals, career goals, business goals, and spiritual goals and realize a quantum step in self development through the power of your pen with self publishing! The process of becoming a published author will drive you to identify and achieve your most important personal goals and to finally live your dreams. No longer is the ability to become a published author reserved for the elite few. You can do it too!

View Cindy’s book in the DTR Library. (be patient while it loads–worth it)

Author Your Book Course: Cindy  fullfils her dream to publish a book!

How to Write & Publish Your Vision Board Book-
Become Author of Your Dreams!

GOT BIG DREAMS?

Secret or Hidden Dreams You Can’t Identify?

DREAMS TO REALITY presents the powerful,  bold new “Author Your Dreams” Success Training Curriculum, fun goal setting that works!  Have you ever used a vision board to map out your goals?  Change your life with the Dreams to Reality Curriculum– the vision board concept evolved to a whole new level.  You will be astonished to see, feel, hear the authentic creativity, productivity, and transformational power that the “Do Your Dreams NOW!” course activates. With this powerful fun goal setting success system, start your dream building now to achieve your goals, publish your vision board book, change your life, and follow your dreams to reality!

Success Training with Real Results!

Finally. An interactive self improvement course with real results! You actually publish your book- a Vision Board Book!  Using the vision board concept in synergy with “the law of attraction,” goal setting, success training, and print on demand publishing, you become the author of your dreams, literally! Change your life.  Check out the Dreams to Reality Library AND if you want to see What DTR  Graduates are Saying…

Is Your Dream to Write a Book?

Do you carry a dream to write and publish your book?  Tap into the Author Your Book ACTION PLAN. Need a dream for an exciting new job or career? Want to start dream building your vision to work at home or become an entreprenuer? Then tap into the Author Your Career ACTION PLAN. Change you life!

But What Would They Think?

Read Deborah’s personal ephipany about What Would They Think? and see if you agree. Or register now for the 6-week DO YOUR DREAMS NOW! COURSE  personally taught by Author Deborah S. Nelson. You may also take her “Dream Doers Home Study Course” that walks you through 10 Dreams to Reality Steps Action Plan using the transformational text and workbook.  Change you life. Take the vision board concept to a 3-dimensional reality…in the form of your own self published vision board book. Would you like to know More …?